Drinking the Cup You Are Served Series

When the Cup is Bitter,
God is Still Faithful

Finding healing, faith, and freedom in life’s hardest circumstances.

What do you do when life hands you circumstances you never chose?
Author and licensed counselor Connie Hagen offers biblical truth,
compassionate wisdom, and practical steps for moving forward with
hope—even when your circumstances do not change.

Drinking the Cup You Are Served book and Bible study by Connie Hagen

Drinking the Cup You Are Served by Connie Hagen

The Book

Drinking the Cup You Are Served

A Journey From Circumstance to Calling

Available in paperback, Kindle, and audiobook.

Bad things happen in this world, and no one is immune.
The cup of life you are served can be suddenly spilled or
shattered. Someone you love can die or suffer a life-altering
accident. You may find yourself facing a divorce you never
wanted, the loss of a job or home, a health crisis, or another
circumstance that changes life in an instant.

In Drinking the Cup You Are Served, Connie Hagen
shares her own true story of how life crashed around
her—suddenly, unexpectedly, and painfully. Even as a licensed
counselor, Connie faced circumstances over which she seemingly
had no control.

As she moved through weeks, months, and years of struggle,
she discovered practical, Christ-centered steps that helped
her live fully and freely again. Through Scripture, personal
experience, and compassionate insight, Connie helps readers
acknowledge their pain, find nourishment in God’s Word, and
rediscover peace, hope, and joy.

Whatever cup life has served you, this book offers encouragement
that you can face it, walk through it, and move forward with
the God who restores the soul.

Is This Book for You?

Hope for the season you never expected.

01

You’re walking through a season you did not choose.

02

You feel spiritually weary or discouraged.

03

You’re wrestling with unanswered prayers.

04

You want biblical truth without shallow clichés.

05

You are ready to trust God in deeper ways.

What You’ll Discover

Practical truth for moving through pain without losing hope.

Acknowledge the Pain

Give honest voice to what has happened instead of
pretending everything is fine or rushing yourself
through grief.

See Through God’s Perspective

Anchor your mind and spirit in biblical truth when
circumstances raise difficult questions about God
and faith.

Move Forward With Hope

Discover practical steps for your mind, body, and
spirit that help you live fully again beyond painful
circumstances.

The Companion Bible Study

Drinking the Cup You Are Served

7 Weeks. 7 Cups. One Journey to Freedom.

When life hands you a cup too bitter to swallow, what do you do?
Maybe you’re walking through grief, wrestling with shame,
paralyzed by fear, or quietly wondering where God is in the
middle of your pain.

This deeply honest, hope-filled 7-week Bible study gently
guides women through unchosen and painful seasons toward
healing, faith, and freedom—one week at a time.

Rooted in biblical truth and professional counseling insight,
the companion study offers daily devotionals, practical
application, meaningful discussion, and space to be honest
about pain without pressure to simply “move on.”

The Seven Cups

Circumstances You Didn’t Choose
Doubt That Shakes Your Faith
The Weight of Others’ Perceptions
Shame That Keeps You Hidden
Fear That Paralyzes
Sorrow That Overwhelms
Freedom Through Surrender

Drinking the Cup You Are Served Bible Study by Connie Hagen

Inside the Study

More than reading. A guided journey toward healing.

Daily Devotionals
Biblical encouragement designed to meet you where you are.
Faith in Action
Practical exercises that move healing from the page into real life.
Group Discussion
Thoughtful questions that invite honest and meaningful connection.
Counseling Insight
Professional counseling perspective thoughtfully woven with Scripture.
Leader Resources
Practical help for facilitators leading women through the study.
Permission to Be Honest
Space to acknowledge pain without pressure to pretend or rush the process.

One Message. Two Ways to Go Deeper.

Begin with the book. Continue the journey with the Bible study.

The Book

Purpose: Foundational teaching and
encouragement for navigating hardship.

Best for: Individual reading and
personal spiritual growth.

Through narrative teaching, biblical insight, and personal
reflection, the book helps readers understand their
circumstances through the lens of faith.


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The Bible Study

Purpose: Guided 7-week application,
reflection, and discussion.

Best for: Women’s groups, churches,
or deeper individual study.

The companion study takes the message further with
daily devotionals, Scripture, practical exercises,
and meaningful group engagement.


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Connie Hagen

About the Author

Connie Hagen

Connie Hagen is an ordained minister and former licensed
professional counselor who has worked extensively with
women recovering from trauma, grief, depression, anxiety,
and other painful life circumstances.

She earned her undergraduate degree in psychology from
Evangel University and a master’s degree in marriage and
family counseling from the University of North Texas.
Her professional experience and ministry have given her
a unique ability to connect biblical truth with the
emotional realities women face in seasons of suffering,
loss, brokenness, and shame.

Connie has also served in women’s ministry, using her
gifts of teaching and public speaking to encourage women
toward deeper faith, healing, and freedom in Christ.

Drinking the Cup You Are Served book and Bible study

Begin the Journey

You weren’t meant to carry your cup alone.

Whether you begin with Connie’s story and teaching or
gather with other women for the 7-week companion study,
discover how God can meet you in life’s hardest
circumstances and lead you toward healing, faith,
and freedom.

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